Life In “Queer” Perspective! “The Dingalogues” Resonates w/ Powerful Truths!

It is not often we get to see a play, let alone one that drives off social consciousness and the perspective Black Gay Men. However, a few like minded and conscious men in Atlanta have gone the distance in creating a theatrical piece that not only sheds light on little known subcultures in the Black LGBT community. Directed by Eric Dillard, and set in a similar format as the famed The Vagina Monologues, The Dingalogues centers around six central characters, described in relation to their penises and how they use–or not–use them.

It is not often we get to see a play, let alone one that drives off social consciousness and the perspective Black Gay Men. However, a few like minded and conscious men in Atlanta have gone the distance in creating a theatrical piece that not only sheds light on little known subcultures in the Black LGBT community. Directed by Eric Dillard, and set in a similar format as the famed The Vagina Monologues, The Dingalogues centers around six central characters, described in relation to their penises and how they use–or not–use them.

The Forbidden Dick, Build-A-Dick, Victim Dick, Blended Dick, Conscious Dick, and Tucked Dicked belay the tale of a closeted pastor struggling with his sexuality, a female to male transgender, a masculine bottom in the army who has been raped, a butch queen who prefers White Men, a black gay activist, and a drag queen, respectively. The play begins with a sassy introduction from a woman pretending to be an audience member and then from scene to scene promptly introduces each character, explaining their faults, struggles, and triumphs. Each of these characters is a paradigm of a real person somewhere in the world who is hurting, but surviving despite what plagues them. Truthfully, you will either identify with one of the characters or you know someone like them.

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#CelebrityCrush Empire Edition | The Men of Empire! (@EmpireFOX)

It is raining men over here and that’s because we’re bringing you a tasty treat to start your work week off right! It’s Celebrity Crush Monday and not only are we going to feature a hot celeb guy as always, we’ve got a total of SIX hot and handsome gents for you to feast your eyes on. In honor of Empire’s season finale which will be airing this Wednesday,we are shining a special light on the male stars of Empire – that’s right, Terrence Howard, Trai Byers, Jussie Smollett, Bryshere Gray, Tobias Truvillion and Rafael de La Fuente are all being featured today in this Deluxe edition of Celebrity Crush.

It is raining men over here and that’s because we’re bringing you a tasty treat to start your work week off right! It’s Celebrity Crush Monday and not only are we going to feature a hot celeb guy as always, we’ve got a total of SIX hot and handsome gents for you to feast your eyes on. In honor of Empire’s season finale which will be airing this Wednesday,we are shining a special light on the male stars of Empire – that’s right, Terrence Howard, Trai Byers, Jussie Smollett, Bryshere Gray, Tobias Truvillion and Rafael de La Fuente are all being featured today in this Deluxe edition of Celebrity Crush.

 

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#CelebrityCrush-Aldis Hodge (@AldisHodge)

Today’s #CelebrityCrush is no stranger to the limelight or our TV screens, we’re crushing on the fine Aldis Hodge !

While many may know Aldis Hodge for his role as MC Ren in the 2015 biopic “Straight Outta Compton”, Aldis has been acting for YEARS!!!! One of Aldis’ earliest roles was as Raymond in the third Die Hard film “Die Hard with a Vengance” and he didn’t stop there. Aldis went on to star in a little bit of everything from the small screen to the silver screen including the hit television show, “Leverage”, playing several voice characters in ‘Happy Feet’ and him being cast as the original Derwin Davis in the ‘The Game’ pilot.

Today’s #CelebrityCrush is no stranger to the limelight or our TV screens, we’re crushing on the fine Aldis Hodge !

While many may know Aldis Hodge for his role as MC Ren in the 2015 biopic “Straight Outta Compton”, Aldis has been acting for YEARS!!!! One of Aldis’ earliest roles was as Raymond in the third Die Hard film “Die Hard with a Vengance” and he didn’t stop there. Aldis went on to star in a little bit of everything from the small screen to the silver screen including the hit television show, “Leverage”, playing several voice characters in ‘Happy Feet’ and him being cast as the original Derwin Davis in the ‘The Game’ pilot.

Aldis Hodge

Fresh off his Straight Outta Compton fame, Aldis is taking over the small screen in the hit show “Underground” – which is an American television period drama series created by Misha Green and Joe Pokaski about the Underground Railroad in Antebellum Georgia. The series stars former child star Jurnee Smollet-Bell, Law and Order SVU’s Christopher Meloni, Mykelti Williamson, and Reed Diamond. Aldis Hodge plays the character Noah; a driven, perceptive and restless slave on the Macon plantation.

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Queens fire back! Derek J defends the trend of Flamboyant Black Gay Men in the media!

The portrayal of Black men in the media has seldom been a positive one. Thus, it is not surprising the portrayal of Blavck Gay men would be just as negative or disturbing. Recently, popular culture has portrayed a slew of gay Black men on television, however, they are not quite what you would call masculine or normal. From shows like Bravo’s “Fashion Queens” and “The Real Housewives of Atlanta,” to E’s! “Rich Kids of Beverly Hills” the portrayal of Black men is nothing short of flamboyant and almost drag queenish. One has to wonder where is the Black Gay spectrum?

The portrayal of Black men in the media has seldom been a positive one. Thus, it is not surprising the portrayal of Blavck Gay men would be just as negative or disturbing. Recently, popular culture has portrayed a slew of gay Black men on television, however, they are not quite what you would call masculine or normal. From shows like Bravo’s “Fashion Queens” and “The Real Housewives of Atlanta,” to E’s! “Rich Kids of Beverly Hills” the portrayal of Black men is nothing short of flamboyant and almost drag queenish. One has to wonder where is the Black Gay spectrum? You can look on almost any network and find all types of white gay men from the drag queens and transexuals to closeted athletes. With the noteworthy exception of Michael Sam, this has not been the case. One New Yorker, who also happens to be Black and gay, finds himself disappointed that he cannot see himself on television. “…not all Black gay men wear heels or make up or interested in fashion…some of us just so happen to be gay and we still carry ourselves as men…” These are the words of Trent Britain Jeter, whose now infamous Facebook post sparked a war of words and opened dialogue about the portrayal of Black Gay men in media.

Trent Britain Jeter
Trent Britain Jeter

Trent’s post managed to find its way through the grapevine to celebrity stylist and fashion commentator, Derek J. Needless to say he was not happy and responded with the following statement via Instagram:

“Do this post was brought to my attention by@thefabdarylj and the points made in this post are valid and well understood, but it amazes me when people pick and choose what they want to support and stand for. You don’t want to support a feminine gay man in media because you feel that it’s not a good representation of the black gay community. But you will choose to support a woman that has raped the black gay culture of their lingo, fashion sense and beauty creativity. Let me even take it a step further you choose to support the rapper that doesn’t even see your lifestyle and a good representation of the black community as a whole. Before I was on tv I was and still a gay black business owner with a successful salon, that mentors black gay youth and gives back to the community. So with all that said I want to challenge the “masculine” black man that doesn’t like the way that gay black men are being represented in media to stand up and do something about it……. Ooooooo I forgot you didn’t want anyone to know you where gay.”

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